Sunday 17 March 2013

BOOMERANG




Drowning in an inexplicable torrent of paralyzing negative energy for the last 72 hours, I got caught up in a state of mental exhaustion in which I contemplated not blogging at all this week because it seemed as though I hit a road block somewhere in my trail of thought every time I pick up my laptop. Anyway, I was in service today when all of a sudden the barricade damming my trail of thought broke and great ideas came gushing like tidal waves. It took all my resolve to restrain myself from jumping on my feet and screaming eureka in the middle of church. I hope you had an excellent week and with vehemence, I would like to assure you that this week holds brighter promises.

Often times, I hear people use the phrases” what goes around comes around” or “what goes up must surely come down”. Both phrases I totally agree with as a scientist and geography minor. Ferdinand Magellan, a Portuguese sea captain and his crew proved the first statement definitively when they circled round the globe on a three-year voyage from 1519-1522 and came back to the exact point they began from without encountering an abrupt end. This, amongst several other works later formed the basis on which fact that the earth is a spherical body was established while the law of gravity in physics backs up the second phrase.

Today, my mission is to prove both statements without a tinge of doubt but using a real life situation and not physics or geography. I would like to share with you an apocryphal story, didactic and very limpid.
In the remote past, along the ancient coastal area lived a simple fisherman, his wife and son. Their life was austere but beautiful, peaceful and enviable.

The fisherman lived in an isolated hut in the middle of the forest with his family and every fishing morning, at dawn, along with his little boy, he would set out with his boat to spread his fishing net.  The catch would be collected the next day, a marketing day according to their itinerary, and his wife would take part of the fish to the town market for sale and so was their routine until an impending doom struck. The fisherman and his little boy left for the river as usual on a morning but never returned. Joy and peace ceased in the little isolated hut that now housed only a distraught wife and mother who wailed incessantly for her missing husband and son.

Days turned into nights, nights into fortnights………market days passed, years went by but the fisherman and his little boy where nowhere to be found! Notwithstanding, the sad and lonely woman in the isolated hut didn’t give up. Somewhere deep inside her, she had the fleeting assurance that her son and husband were still alive and would come back to her some day. She stopped weeping and dedicated her life to doing good and helping strangers. Feeding and sheltering weary travelers who got lost in the forest.
On a sunny market day, she stumbled on two young but ragged looking strangers. Weak and feeble from the perils of journeying. They looked alike but one seemed younger and had a deep cut on his left feet. He had walked into an animal trap in the forest and was bleeding profusely.

She immediately helped them to her hut where she tended to the wounds of the young lad with healing herbs. Fed them with a nourishing fish meal and gave them a warm place to spend the night. The next morning, they decided to continue their journey but she persuaded

Sunday 10 March 2013

THE GRINDING STONE.

GRINDING STONE

Over the last seven days, I have been engaged in a ferocious soul searching exercise consequent from feeling like a huge weight was lying on my shoulders making me usually lethargic and tardy but as I perused through the chapters of my life’s book I caught a shimmer of light from some phrase I had learnt long ago.
“keep your nose to the grinding stone” that idiom from my days of learning figurative expressions in my English Language class as a teenage girl struck me like lightening from a tremendous thunder bolt and as I mused over it, I smiled from deep within !
Back in the day, it was one of those idioms I found hilarious and almost preposterous.  Each time it came up, I found myself conjuring in my subconscious an image of a maiden bent over the ancient grinding stone, hot chilly splashing over her eyes and then a rapid distraught and ironically comical reaction to her doom. Alas, it was a teenager’s prank mind envisioning nasty things. That phrase perched like a gentle dove on an olive branch on my mind and all week, I worked at fathoming it out. My finding didn’t exactly lift off the invisible weight off my shoulders but it gave me the strength to overcome that incredible lethargy and tardiness. I felt able to combat a troll all by myself!
Today, I would like to share that finding with you but

before I do, read this:
“Ebiere was born into a dynastic family. Wealth and affluence were the first words she spoke as a toddler. Everything came to her easy. She had the best things in life and was the apple of her parent’s eyes as an only child. She didn’t know the words poverty or struggle ever existed until catastrophe struck. Her parents were killed in an auto crash and she became an orphan. Barely eight years old, her vile uncle took the family’s wealth and in a house where she once was a princess, Ebiere was reduced to worst than a mere domestic staff. Her cousins who once doted on her, turned her into a cheap rug and walked all over her, their mother, her uncle’s loving and caring wife, morphed into Jezebel!
Ebiere’s life was like that of a promising seedling that sprouted happily at the call of the impeccable sun and was squashed by hideous darkness, it had ended even before it got a chance to begin. So she thought but providence dissented.
A colossal tragedy was to shape the life of a young orphan or dent it but amidst gross darkness, showed an ember of light in the disguise. Her obnoxious uncle had fired all domestic staff employed by her late parents but allowed her nanny to remain in his new employ. He didn’t want anything to do with his niece so the nanny was meant to be the only source of liaison between them.
Ebiere was literally born into her nanny’s hands and the elderly woman had loved and cared for her like a grandmother over the years. She soon became the centre of Ebiere’s world- her only family.
Life was turmoil for Ebiere and when it was time for her to go to secondary school, her uncle’s wife enrolled her in the community secondary school while her cousins attended the best private school but her nanny always told her this one thing every night she wailed uncontrollably, “have faith my